Tox is an open-source protocol for encrypted chat.
It is not anonymous.
My research lead me here:
Can I use Tor for this?
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Tor is designed to protect your network communications. While you can run a chat system over Tor, it can't defend against accidental application leaks. You'd have to fully review the application itself to make sure.